The pros of respect aren't that hard to see. When you are respectful to someone--especially someone of authority--those receiving your respect are instantly more likely to do what you want them to. If you treat someone respectfully, then it increases the chances of things going your way. People are nicer to you when you treat them nicely, and it isn't uncommon in the work place for bosses to be particular about people's manners. "Please" and "thank you" are two harmless, yet incredible useful words that will help you not only when you are young, but when you go on into life.
There aren't many cons of respect. Sure, being respectful takes longer, but honestly it has a much higher benefit than it does a downside. Being respectful requires you to pay attention to the person you are speaking to, but if you pay attention you may just learn something. It isn't unheard of that people respond badly to disrespect, though some people are more tolerant than others. It is a blessing to find someone who is tolerant of disrespect, especially to young people who haven't really experienced the world yet. However, tolerance can only go so far. If you are more interested in the ease of not having to be respectful in this world and take advantage of a tolerant person, you don't deserve their kindness.
No comments:
Post a Comment